We’re All Made of Clay After All
Every person is the result of everything that has happened to them in their life. Not only that, but also the decisions we make in response to those things. A person who spent their childhood riddled with abuse might become a weak spirit. Or they might become a public speaker against abuse and violence in general.
The cool thing is that, if we’re lucky, we can look back fondly on the things that have helped shape us.
Who are you?
I am an exceptionally complex person. Many things have shaped who I am. Some things much cooler than others. Some of my experiences I miss dearly. But they can’t pay the bills.
As a kid, my family took annual vacations to various places in the country. My sister and I didn’t appreciate it most of the time. We saw it as being trapped in a car away from our friends. Despite that, I’ve seen some incredible parts of our country that no one can take away from me. It also helped me with our national geography.
As a teen I was a lifeguard. I burned like crazy, got more freckles than should be possible, and constantly judged my body against all others (and lost). However, that experience gave me confidence in the water, a knowledge of several life saving skills, and a love of water.
As a young adult and new teacher, I volunteered time in the summer to the local children’s hospital. Rather than fall into one of their pre-conceived opportunities, I piloted a reading program for them. It was amazing. I traveled to the various in-patient wards and read books to the kids. Sometimes I was relief from bored one. Sometimes I kept a premie company. Occasionally I became a performer to distract a cystic fibrosis patient from their therapy sessions (not to mention a great bribe when they needed to cough and didn’t want to).
Today, I’ve left teaching for a life in retail. While customers can suck something fierce, it’s a hell of a lot better than crazy parents (and I do mean the actual crazy ones, not just the ones who love their kids). I have this blog. Not a single person I know has ever actually seen it, unless by complete accident and they wouldn’t know who’s writing it. I have a YouTube channel. Obviously I can’t hide my identity on a video, but it helps me continue with my love of books. I’m also looking into opportunities to expand my love of reading and talking. The chances of getting into a voice over gig are slim, but there are others ways to feed that need.
So who are you? What has shaped you? Are you embracing the things you love, even if it’s not what makes you money?
I sure hope everyone out there has a passion keeping them going. I hope your job doesn’t drain you of all of your physical and emotional energy. I hope you have plenty left over when you get home to your family. It’s a pretty nice way to live.